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validation switch2/24/2016 The Confidence Secret 99% of Guys are MISSINGHey Man,
I should have been truly confident all my life. I've always enjoyed public speaking. I've never had a problem meeting people or talking to women. I was a straight-A student growing up, a member of student government in college, and president of my fraternity. I'm not a bad-looking guy. A few years ago, I had the perfect job for me and was with the woman I wanted to be with. You could even say I was confident in many areas of my life. And yet, deep down, something was always MISSING. At the time, I had no idea what it was, but it got so bad I decided I would do whatever it takes to figure it out and see if I could fix it. So, I spent more than 5 years and over $20,000. I read hundreds of books, hundreds of academic journal articles, and took in an enormous amount of audio and live training. I even got a master's degree related to my search for a solution. Thanks to that long, difficult process I found out what I was missing. It's painful to admit, but I discovered that I lacked the most basic foundation, the CORE, of genuine confidence. Some people call what I was missing self-worth, self-esteem, or self-love. Call it whatever you want. The point is that no matter what I did I never felt GOOD ENOUGH. The most beautiful, awesome woman I know has the same problem. I can tell that almost every celebrity, sports star, politician, and everyone else we tend to look up to suffers from it even if it appears that they don't.
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